Trust is said to be like an egg once it is broken it can never be gotten again.
To be able to trust someone, it takes a lot, it might be that the person did something really well to earn your trust. Therefore, once betrayal or break up comes in, it makes all hope in the man or woman to be lost.
When trust is lost it takes a really long time before one can be able to trust again especially in a relationship. Even though the new person might do everything to show that he or she is trustworthy it becomes really difficult to completely trust anyone again.
Trusting another person after a first break up or betrayal is virtually impossible, it only takes time and hard work on the side of the person to win trust again.
Here are three things to help you rebuild trust after break up and love once again.
Learn to trust yourself
You can’t give away trust when you don’t trust yourself, that’s why you should trust yourself before you learn to trust others. Sometimes having this strong feeling someone is cheating on you might turn out not to be true. That is our inner trust, so listen to your instincts and have confident in yourself.
Be kind to yourself
You should pursue things that makes you feel fulfilled; spend more time with your family and friends; Make yourself a better person.
Understand the beauty of being single and don’t rush into another
Bouncing into another relationship quickly thinking you are fine is probably not the best quick fix out. In case it also fails then you will have double ‘Exs” to get over thereby prolonging the inevitable pains. Understand the beauty of being single and don’t rush into another.
By: Spendilove Elorm D.Badu
